Category archives: Information

Information about the process

Pictures, pictures, get your pictures here…..

I realize that only a few of you have been privy to the wonderful pictures of our daughter. So now without any further delay here’s our daughter.


And yes we think she’s beautiful. Notice the shoes, hopefully her feet won’t take after mine and grow into those shoes anytime soon.

Lili in chair Lili Mugshot

Yes she does look a little serious. She was 5 months old when these pictures were taken and she’ll be roughly 11 months old when finally get to hold her. The mugshot picture. All referrals from China come with three pictures – and one of them is the mugshot. Her’s is cute, so it’s obvious she doesn’t take after me. I’ll post more as stuff happens. -t

We know our Daughter’s new name

Despite having at least three naming books sitting on bookshelves for years as we waited for our referral we never really got around to selecting a name. Partly this was because the process seemed so unreal at times and partly because we didn’t know how old our daughter would be nor how pronounceable the name given to her by the orphanage would be. 

So when were told our daughter’s name, Cen Li Meng, (pronouned Shun Lee Mung) by our social worker, Nancy, we started thinking about names for the first time, or at least I did, although Catherine may have spent a few minutes (translation days) thinking about names prior to that moment. So we tried out a variety of options, some more interesting than others, all of which we rejected. Among the names that we decided didn’t fit were: Millicent which sounded like a really small rap artist, which our daughter may be but we’ll let her decide that herself; An unspellable and unpronounceable Welsh name; and finally the endless variations of girl state names – Virginia, Georgia, Dakota, etc – because geography class is hard enough without the entire 4th grade making jokes at your expense. 

So this morning over dim sum, which seemed somewhat appropriate, her new name which is a mix of her existing Chinese name and an easily pronounceable western name came together effortlessly. Or at least part of it did, the whole last name mess is still being negotiated – hyphen or no hyphen. Unfortunately Howie Mandel won’t be giving us a prize depending on our answer to that question. Or course our choice will affect her every time she fills out a standardized test or goes to the doctor. 

Anyway, Elizabeth Li is what we’ll call her, with the nickname of Li Li (pronounced Lee-Lee). Now the big question will be what the order of her last names will be and whether or not they’ll be hyphenated. 

Hopefully we’ll get pictures of her this week and travel by January or early February.   Ciao, Thom 

Maggie soon to be relegated to Dog Status

It will come as a shock to the queen of the mopey face that before long she will be a dog once again. Maggie will be great with Elizabeth because she has already learned that babies and toddlers taste good.

Maggie Hike TinyAnd by that I mean Maggie knows that babies and toddlers always have stuff in their hands or are dropping stuff on the floor. Plus she has a gentle mouth and isn’t protective of her food. Of course we’ll be watching her very carefully for a long time but of all the things that we could worry about, wondering how Maggie will react to our daughter isn’t on our increasingly long list. -t